Friday, May 23, 2025

Kids Who Bully Other Kids Cause Their Victims Long/Short Term Psychological Trauma



Every morning, Calvin would shoot out the front door like a firecracker—yelling goodbye to the dog, waving his toy dinosaur, and racing toward the bus like it was the best part of his day. He was six, full of life, and grinning like he had a secret to share with the world.


But then, things began to dim.

At first, it was subtle. A missing smile. A quiet “good morning” barely whispered. Then came the stomachaches with no cause. Sleepless nights. The hallway light left on. And eventually… the drawings stopped.

Calvin, who once filled entire walls with dinosaurs and dragons, now handed me blank pages—or worse, angry black scribbles crumpled into balls.

I tried to tell myself it was just a phase. But deep down, I knew better.

So one morning, I didn’t just watch from the porch—I walked him all the way to the bus.

He clung to his backpack straps like they were the only solid thing he had. No smile. No wave. When the bus doors hissed open, he hesitated like he was stepping into something dangerous.

“Go ahead, sweetheart,” I said softly. “You’ve got this.”

He nodded, eyes full of storm clouds, and stepped aboard.

That’s when I saw it.

He headed toward the front, but a kid in the back made a comment—something I couldn’t hear but didn’t need to. There was a smirk. A nudge. A finger pointing.

Calvin pulled his hat low, turned to the window, and wiped his cheek with his sleeve.

He was crying.

And then—something unexpected.

The bus didn’t move.

Miss Carmen, our longtime driver, still holding the wheel with one hand, reached back with the other. She didn’t say a word.

She just offered her hand.

And Calvin took it like it was a lifeline.

They stayed like that—silent, still—for a long moment. Just her hand wrapped around his, holding him steady.

Later that day, the bus pulled up and parked—but Miss Carmen didn’t just wave goodbye.

She climbed out, walked straight over to the waiting parents, and said what no one else would.

“Some of your kids are h.u.rting other kids,” she said. Calm. Clear. Unapologetic.

Some parents looked confused. Others offended.

She continued, “This isn’t harmless teasing. It’s b.u.l.l.ying. Targeting. Scaring a child so badly, he cries every single morning. That’s not just ‘kids being kids.’ That’s something we fix.”

Then she looked at me. “I’ve seen your son shrink into his seat for three weeks. I saw him tripped in the aisle. I heard him called a ‘freak.’ And nobody said a word.”

I felt the guilt hit like a wave. I hadn’t seen it. Not fully.

And then Miss Carmen delivered the line I’ll never forget:

“We fix it now. Not next week. Not when it’s easier. Today. Or I start naming names. And trust me—I know every one of them.”

She climbed back onto her bus and drove away like it was just another day.

But for us, it wasn’t.

That night, I finally asked Calvin what was going on. And this time, I really listened.

He told me everything—

About the boy who shoved his lunch off the table.

The group that mocked his dinosaur hoodie.

The time someone tore his drawing and laughed.

And how, each day, he felt smaller… more invisible.

I held him that night as he cried—not just because of what happened, but because he finally *could*.

The next morning, we walked into school together. This time, we didn’t just drop him off. We asked to speak with the principal, the counselor, and yes—Miss Carmen came too. She stood by us like a quiet warrior, nodding as Calvin told his story.

The school took action. Not the polite kind—the real kind. Meetings were called. Parents were informed. Policies were enforced. Teachers kept sharper eyes. And most importantly, the kids who had hurt Calvin were held accountable.

But change didn’t just happen in the office. It started showing up in the hallways.

A classmate left Calvin a kind note.

A teacher asked him to lead story time.

Someone invited him to sit at lunch.

It wasn’t perfect, not all at once. But Calvin started drawing again. First a tiny T. rex in the corner of a page. Then a whole herd of brontosauruses charging across the fridge.

One morning a few weeks later, Calvin bolted out the door, waving his toy dinosaur like a flag again. He yelled goodbye to the dog, spun in a circle, and ran to the bus.

At the top of the steps, he paused—and turned back.

“I’m okay now, Mama,” he said. “You fixed it.”

But the truth is… he fixed it.

With his courage.

His honesty.

And the quiet strength to keep going.

And Miss Carmen? She still drives the same route. Still keeps one hand on the wheel—

And the other, always ready to reach back.

Author/Poster: Unknown 


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